Welcome to No-vember: Saying “No” to What No Longer Serves Our Peace! 

If you’ve been feeling stuck, unseen, or just craving a little real talk and encouragement — you’ve officially found your tribe. This is your reminder that your next chapter starts now. This month, we’re not just sipping cocoa… we’re spillin’ truth and reclaiming our peace.

We’re exploring Faith, Self-Love, and Purpose while waiting on God’s promises — because sitting still and stagnant? Nah, that’s not our style. We’re walking in purpose, glowing in grace, and we will have a little fun while doing it.

This month, we’re boldly saying NO — no to chaos, no to confusion, no to anything or anyone that disrupts our peace. NO - to anything that drains our joy, or distracts us from God’s plan. It’s No-vember, and we’re protecting our peace, our hearts, and our purpose like never before.

This space is about truth, healing, and rediscovery, with a little side of beauty, design, and classy sensuality —   because being who God called you to be is the ultimate glow-up.

So come as you are — flaws, faith, and all — and let’s live boldly in beauty, purpose, and truth. 

Some days, my faith feels strong enough to move mountains. Other days, I just want to crawl under the covers and ask God, “When is my turn for real?”

At 50, I’ve seen love in all its forms — the hopeful kind, the almost kind, and the kind that looked like love but wasn’t quite the real thing. I’ve been married (failed), and back then I thought marriage was the goal. But now I know, peace and pleasing God is.

Lately, I find myself whispering prayers that sound more like confessions: Lord, I’m tired of being strong. I’m tired of doing everything right and still feeling alone. But then I remember — faith doesn’t always feel good. Sometimes it’s choosing to believe when your heart is exhausted.

Yes, I still believe in love. Not the fairytale kind — but the kind that comes wrapped in peace, patience, and purpose. The kind that doesn’t have to be posted to be real.

So now, I constantly remind myself (and maybe you too) that being tired doesn’t mean you’ve lost faith. It just means you’re human. And even in your weariness, God is still working behind the scenes.